Not sure if someone is interested in you? Want to know the signs to look for to gauge if you might get a second date? If you notice these signals, they may well be into you!
1. They ask you lots of questions.
If he’s asking you a lot of questions about yourself and seems genuinely interested – then it’s very likely that he actually is!
If you like someone, you’ll want to make time to find out more about them, so if they’re making an effort to learn about you then it’s likely they have a vested interest in you.
2. Mutual eye contact.
Whilst asking you lots of questions, your date might be maintaining eye contact with you. If he’s interested in you he’s much more likely to try and catch your eye and will maintain eye contact whilst talking to you.
Maintaining eye contact elevates your oxytocin levels and increases mutual attraction so it’s worth giving it a go if you’re interested in them. Just make sure that your eye contact doesn’t end up verging on staring as that’s rude and might scare your date!
3. Inward leaning.
The way a person is sitting is an important gauge as to whether they like you. People tend to lean towards people they like. For example uncrossing their arms/legs or leaning over a table or if you’re sitting next to each other, they’d be likely turned towards you to give you their full attention. This may also make you subconsciously lean towards them too, if you’re interested, that is!
4. No barriers between you.
If someone is interested in you, they’re likely to remove any barriers or obstacles that are between you. If they’re sitting opposite you they might move to sit next to you and move things out of the way so they can see you better. Also as mentioned previously, they may uncross their arms or legs as this can be seen as a barrier, so removal of this leaves them more open towards you. Make sure if you are interested in them to make yourself more open and uncross your arms to remove the barrier.
5. Finding excuses to touch you.
When someone likes you they’ll quite often go out of their way to find excuses to touch you. This might be lightly touching your arm as they talk to you or finding an excuse to hold your hand.
Another way they could touch you is by “preening”- picking fluff off your clothing or straightening your clothes could be an indication that they’re interested in you.
Subtle mirroring indicates attraction. If they cross their arms when you do, or uncross their legs when you do then it is very likely that there is attraction there.
People who like one another are likely to mirror each other’s body positions. It can help establish rapport and sends a subconscious signal that you’re interested.
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