How To Stimulate His Mind

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To establish a rapport and a connection, with the friendly, like-minded and sexy stranger that you’re chatting to on the UK’s busiest gay phone service, it’s important that you more than flirty. Stimulating his mind will score you brownie points, and increase your chances of successfully arranging a date.

Show off your personality and confidence by engaging your POI in light-hearted and cool banter that effortlessly develops into hot seduction.

Explore Each Other’s Minds

To make a great impression, you don’t have to be OTT in your behaviour or with your compliments. Being your usual warm, charismatic and friendly self will make any guy that you message on ManChat positively responsive towards you. Send a cheeky private message or a flirty text, and take your time getting to know each other before arranging a meet.

When you explore each other’s minds you share ideas and create a joint vision that is bigger and better than anything you could have imagined by yourself. Initiate conversation by focusing your attention on your crush, so that you can get to know how his brain works. Talk about a variety of topics, including dating-friendly general interest and personal stuff such as background, work life, family history and culture. Discovering mutual likes and dislikes will also help to bond you closer together.

You’ll gain a rounded view of each other’s values and opinions, as you form mutual respect and trust.

Pay Non-Physical Compliments

While everyone loves to receive compliments about their physical appearance and good looks, these types of comments do little to stimulate the mind and make someone putty in your hands. To make your POI feel extra special, compliment him on his sharp mind, wit and intelligence. If he’s particularly knowledgeable about something, mention that too.

Make sure that your compliments sound genuine and sincere.

Ask Great Questions

To unlock the mystery of what makes someone tick, you have to be brave enough to ask great questions. This is not the time to focus on small talk and hot gossip about superficial stuff. You need to be willing to dig deeper, if you want to stimulate his mind like no one else has ever done before!

Begin by asking him questions that relate to his most recent and/or significant memories, goals and dreams. Move on to questions that explore unlimited possibilities… “If you had a superpower, what would it be?”; “If you could time travel, what year would you visit?”; “if you could steal something and not get caught, what would it be?”

As you stimulate his mind with thought-provoking questions, you’ll also be working magic on his senses.

Share Your Thoughts

The most personal and intimate thing that you can do with another person surprisingly doesn’t involve sex. Sharing your thoughts with someone offers them an open invitation to get to know your vulnerable side. This takes time, patience and practice, so be prepared to go slow when melding minds and getting to know each other on a deeper level.

Have Fun

When you’re chatting and flirting with a handsome hunk that you instantly clicked with on ManChat, you should definitely be having fun. Mind stimulation doesn’t only involve hot topics that are personal and serious in nature. Expressing personality and a sense of humour is equally important when establishing a connection and rapport.

Tickle his funny bone, and make him LOL, by sharing stories about past experiences. It’s fine to talk about people and situations that make you laugh, but avoid being rude or crude.

If you can stimulate his mind while also making him chuckle, you’ll have made a first class impression on any guy that you want to date.

Tell Him How He Makes You Feel

Once you’ve completed your fun and light-hearted fact-finding mission, you’ll need to integrate all that you have learned about your POI.

Think about the information and ideas you have shared and explored together. If you find that you’ve been mutually stimulated by your interaction, you could have the basis for a future successful relationship!

To get him addicted to you, show honest and genuine interest by letting him know how he makes you feel.

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Casual Gay Sex Vs Relationship Gay Sex

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For sex to be great, it should ideally be an erotically charged, exciting and fun experience that leaves you and your partner both feeling orgasmically satisfied and exhilarated. Unfortunately for most people, the quality, and frequency, of sex usually starts to wane once the honeymoon period is over in a relationship. How you feel about yourself, your body confidence, and the way that you connect with other people, also play a part in the fulfilment of your sex life.

Not getting enough sex, if you’re in a relationship, may tempt you to stray and go in search of casual gay sex that is uninhibited. Gay, bi and straight men looking for ways to make their sex life more thrilling enjoy no strings attached fun on the phone, when they hook up with guys who are just as horny, on ManChat.

Whether you’re looking for short-term NSA encounters, or hoping to meet a man who is Mr Right for the long-term, you can definitely find the perfect match for you, on a phone chat, text and online dating service that is nationwide.

Casual Gay Sex – The Pros & The Cons

Casual gay sex will appeal to you, if you’re the kind of man who tends to view sex as a goal, and you want it frequently and regularly, with a variety of partners. Besides being exciting and risqué, casual sex gives you the freedom to explore your sexuality, with no pressure or obligation involved.


  • Having sex with someone you’ve just met can be intoxicating, addictive and liberating
  • Hooking up with different guys can add variety to your sexual repertoire
  • One-time hook-ups can be the perfect antidote to getting over a relationship break up, or help to enhance the level of intimacy that you have in a current relationship
  • Casual sex can give you a massive ego boost, and elevate your self-confidence
  • It’s easy to connect and click with a genuine casual sex partner on ManChat, for flirty banter, or a hot date that promises casual sex


  • You’ve got to be willing to put in the effort to get what you want – sign up for free on the gay text chat dating service and start your casual sex search today
  • Not all casual sexual encounters will live up to your expectations – so be realistic!
  • So many men, so little time! If you don’t have a sexual type, you may feel overwhelmed by the variety of profiles of different men featured on the site

Relationship Gay Sex

When you’re in a committed gay relationship, the sexual intimacy that you share with your partner means a lot more than just getting your rocks off. In a relationship, you can feel vulnerable, emotionally bonded and loved. If the partnership lacks trust, mutual respect and harmony however, sex usually suffers and can become a chore, an obligation or non-existent.


  • Great sex in a relationship makes you feel fulfilled, loved and happy
  • You know each other’s sexual likes/dislikes and have healthy boundaries
  • If you’re on the same wavelength, you can explore your sexuality, kinks and fetishes in a safe space
  • Your emotional needs are also met
  • Sex is virtually on tap


  • It’s easy to fall into a predictable sexual pattern – sex only at the weekends, or routine sexual positions
  • Sex that is void of passion, excitement and eroticism can be boring and deeply unsatisfying
  • Bad sex, or no sex, in a relationship can leave you feeling empty
  • When you’re comfortable with each other’s likes/dislikes, there’s little reason to experiment and explore
  • Lack of sexual activity can make you crave steamy one-night stands and casual sex with hot guys

You can get the balance right and enjoy great sex – whether you’re single, or in a happy (or sexless) committed relationship – by enhancing your flirting skills with someone you connect with on ManChat gay chat line. Anonymously chat, text and communicate online, and explore the sexual possibilities. If you’re on to a good thing, it’s easy to turn your flirtation into a date night sexual encounter.

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